Meeting someone on a casual dating site, especially one designed for people who enjoy bondage, BDSM and kinky sex is a great way to explore your own fetishes and interests with similar minded people. Because of the nature of this site, it naturally attracts people with an interest in both pleasure and pain. The key thing to remember is that BDSM is all about mutual enjoyment and consent.

Members of BDSM Sexual Dating are here to have fun, not to be abused or hurt without their consent. When you meet a member, it is important to discuss your fantasies, what you want to experience and what you do not want so there are clear boundaries. Setting limits from the outset will ensure you both have a good time and avoid any confusion or upset.

People who enjoy bondage, S&M and BDSM vary greatly in terms of what they are into and will allow. Some members simply enjoy light bondage, spanking and teasing while others enjoy the further end of the BDSM spectrum, preferring more pain and humiliation. In order to ensure you have the right partner, we suggest you spend time messaging and chatting in order to get the know each other beforehand. Knowing what your partner is interested in before committing to meeting up will eliminate a lot of the common problems and disappointment when meeting someone for the first time.

Safe sex

It goes without saying that members should always practice safe sex especially if you are in a casual relationship.